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We are a husband and wife sex educator team, and the authors of nine other books about sex and intimacy. Jeffre is also a workshop leader, experienced executive, and licensed psychologist with over 30 years of clinical experience specializing in relationships, human sexuality, and energy medicine. Somraj teaches, counsels, and writes a monthly Sacred Sexual Secrets newsletter. His books about sex  have sold over 20,000 copies to 115 countries through the website he designed and maintains. Our most successful title, Female Ejaculation (Ulysses Press, 2005), has sold approximately 50,000 copies to date. 


Our Bios

Somraj Pokras


Somraj Pokras is a sexologist who's written 2 million words (so far) about Tantric loveplay, intercourse, orgasms, and spiritual sex. In a previous life he was a Fortune 500 people-skills and team-building trainer. In addition to being a sex-positive author, orgasmic sex coach, and bodyworker, he’s a licensed pilot, music lover, football fan, and worshipper of the Goddess in all women. He lives in the mountain paradise near Lake Tahoe, California with his shamanic sex therapist wife and two passionate spaniels.

Somraj received a B.S. from the California Institute Of Technology in 1968 and an advanced certificate in interpersonal counseling in 1972 from the Advanced Organization of Copenhagen. He served as technical director of training in 1973 and senior case supervisor for the counseling clinic in 1974. He presented Effective Presentation Skills workshops to Bankers Trust Company, Bank Of America, Wells Fargo Bank, and the FCB, Foote Cone & Belding, advertising agency.

Somraj’s founded The Viability Group Inc. management training consultancy from 1974 to 2005 through which he presented public speaking and presentation skills workshops. As a speaker and trainer for Fortune 500 companies, he designed over 50 workshops that guided more that 20,000 people to lead more effective lives. His Systematic Problem-Solving And Decision-Making workshop was published by Crisp Publications in 1989. 

He has spoken at conferences for firms such as Westinghouse and Siemens plus many government agencies. Somraj taught expert witnesses from the California Public Utilities Commission how to testify in court and handle cross-examination.

He served as president of his local chapter of the American Society For Training And Development in 1988. He turned nine of his trainings into print books including Rapid Team Deployment and Working In Teams

In 1997 by studied with the internationally acclaimed sexologist Margot Anand and served as an instructor for her Love And Ecstasy Training from 1997 to 1998. He completed the series of Human Awareness Institute’s Sex, Love, And Intimacy workshops. He co-founded Tantra At Tahoe in 1998, teaches, counsels, and writes its monthly Sacred Sexual Secrets newsletter. He’s written ten ebooks about tantric sex and has sold over 20,000 ebooks to 115 countries through the website he designed and maintains.  When he's not on the ski slopes or hiking trails, you'll find him on social media or adding to his hundreds of blog posts and newsletter articles on his website.

Dr. Jeffre TallTrees


Jeffre is an author, workshop leader, experienced executive, and licensed psychologist with over 30 years of clinical experience specializing in relationships, human sexuality, and energy medicine. Jeffre received her Ph.D. from the California School of Professional Psychology in 1977. She was continuing education and volunteer director for The Open Door drug abuse prevention project for four years. From 1980 through 1982 she was director of the Family Stress Center in Concord, California. During that time, she was chairman of the Human Services Advisory Commission of Contra Costa County. She was acting director of mental health for Tuolumne County in 1982.

She was in private psychology practice from 1981 until 2005 specializing in marital and sexual therapy. With a colleague, she co-authored Intimacy: A Green Light Fort Red Hot Sex which was published in 1997. For ten years in the 80s and 90s, Dr. TallTrees wrote a weekly psychology advice column titled Let’s Talk for four local newspapers in Contra Costa County, California. After years of membership, she became president of the Bay Area Clinical Hypnosis Society in 1994. Jeffre was a long-time member of AASECT, the American Association Of Sexuality Educators, Counsellors, and Therapists, and presented at its 1997 and 1998 national conventions.

After studying with Margot Anand in 1996, she completed her sacred sexuality teacher training and served as an instructor for her year-long Love And Ecstasy Training until 1999. As co-founder of Tantra At Tahoe since 1998, she teaches workshops and counsels clients on conscious sexuality. Jeffre has co-authored three books on tantric sex. Jeffre presented at the national Lifestyles Convention in Reno and Las Vegas 2002, 2003, and 2004. After completing his Light Body School in 2005, she served as lead teacher for Dr. Alberto Villoldo’s Four Winds Society until 2011. She has spoken publicly many times, been interviewed on local TV, and been quoted in newspapers. Jeffre’s latest presentation was to the Women Empowering Women conference in California during 2016.